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11 Things Happy Couples Do Before They Go to Sleep

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It’s very important to spend some time with your partner before you go to sleep. It doesn’t matter how much time you have to spend together — an hour or just a few minutes. If it’s just the 2 of you enjoying each other, talking, and showing your love, that is all you need.

We made a list of some simple but very effective pieces of advice from psychologists. We also prepared a special bonus for you at the end.

 

1. Switch your phones to silent mode, and put them away.

Social media dependency suppresses the release of oxytocin in your body. This hormone is responsible for emotional intimacy and bonding. Psychotherapist Carol Carey advises following a simple rule: turn off your phones, or put them away at 9 p.m. on the dot.

2. Forget about work.

Try to forget about work, and stop checking your work email when you are in bed. It’s so much better to spend that time together and to have some rest so you can be productive at work tomorrow. Pillow talk connects couples emotionally, helps you forget about problems, and makes you feel relaxed. Avoid talking about work, financial troubles, or anything else that could make your partner feel worried.

3. Go to bed at the same time as your partner.

Many couples don’t see each other all day long and have a habit of going to bed at different times. According to psychologist Curt Smith, happy couples brush their teeth together and go to bed at the same time. It helps them to maintain the warmth and intimacy of their relationship.

4. Follow a routine.

Following the same bedtime routine every day helps you to sleep better. While following a familiar routine, your brain receives a signal of the approaching bedtime and prepares your body for sleep. If you follow the same routine together with your partner, it will make your relationship more intimate and trustworthy.

5. Have a heart-to-heart talk.

  • Pay attention to each other’s feelings. You don’t need to give advice or find immediate solutions to problems. Sometimes we simply want to talk and feel the care and support of our loved ones.
  • Psychologist Ryan Howes suggests dedicating a few minutes before going to sleep to expressing positive feelings to your partner. This will help end the day on a positive note and make you feel better. It also has a positive influence on your overall mood.
  • Try to forget about everything that happened that day, and leave all your problems and concerns outside the bedroom door. Tell your partner how much you love him or her. It’s very important to be serious and sincere when you express your feelings.

6. Don’t argue or get into heated conversations.

Curt Smith reminds us to try not to involve ourselves in heated arguments before going to sleep. Fighting in bed never helps to solve a problem. On top of that, it’s harder for both of you to fall asleep, and you’ll feel depressed the next day.

7. Keep your bedroom child-free.

 

According to psychologist Michael Viner-Davis, the only time you can let your children sleep in your bed is when they have a nightmare. At all other times, your bedroom should be your private space. You need to have that space for the 2 of you to maintain your intimacy.

8. Don’t share a bed with your pets.

As reported by University of Kansas research, 63% of people who sleep with their pets don’t get enough sleep. Your pet can’t sleep through the night and often disturbs your sleep. On top of that, having a pet in your bed violates “the rule of 2″ in your bedroom.

9. Don’t drink alcohol or smoke.

Many couples like to have a glass of wine before going to bed to create a romantic atmosphere. However, while your body is digesting alcohol, the restorative period of your sleep becomes shorter. That will make you feel tired, distracted, and easily annoyed when you wake up in the morning. Alcohol also makes snoring likely, and the nicotine in cigarettes promotes insomnia.

10. Give each other a massage.

Specialists from the National Foundation of Sleep confirm that a light and relaxing massage before going to bed improves the quality of your sleep, reduces anxiety, and brings couples closer together.

11. Don’t forget about hugs and kisses.

Don’t forget to kiss your partner before going to sleep as well as cuddling for a few minutes when you are already in bed. This is very relaxing and evokes positive emotions. Psychologists are confident that if you hug while falling asleep, your relationship is not in trouble.

Bonus

If you suffer from insomnia, try to make a few changes to your lifestyle.

  • Don’t drink coffee after noon.
  • Wake up earlier.
  • Don’t snack before going to bed.
  • Buying some beautiful and expensive bedding can help you fall asleep faster.
  • Don’t nap on the weekends.
  • Leave all gadgets outside your bedroom door.
  • Let some fresh air into your bedroom.
  • Take a hot bath before going to bed.
  • Try not to work after 9 p.m.
  • Don’t drink too much water before going to sleep.

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The Eye You Choose Reveals A Secret Detail About Your Subconscious Mind

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It’s commonly known that “the eyes are the window to the soul”. Both literally and figuratively, this rings true. What you see in a person’s eyes, and what you look for, reveals a lot about who you are as a person, as well.

 

Scientifically speaking, the function of the eye is to observe visual data of the world around you. This is filtered first through your subconscious — which is responsible for storing and retrieving the data you’ve collected. By the time it reaches your conscious awareness, all this incoming data has already been filtered to fit a program consistent with your self-concept.

When you scroll down to view the image below, choose the eye which is most immediately apparent to you — it’s the one that’s been chosen by your subconscious, before your conscious mind can begin to work.

1 . Spiritual Hunger

You’re feeling hungry, but not for physical food — you crave spiritual nourishment. This burning desire for connection with the universe is calling on you to find new experiences, and have new adventures. As you move on with your life, you must learn to forgive your past. Follow this passion, and you’ll feel alive!

2. You’ve Been Here Before

Akin to a “spiritual encyclopedia”, your many previous incarnations have prepared you as a storehouse of knowledge. Your life has been difficult, but not without its charms. Spread your knowledge wherever you go, and you’ll find yourself able to shine in your own life and the lives of others.

3. The Healer

Your aura shines brightly. The more naturally you can embrace this, the greater the possibilities of raising your natural vibration. This innate light will heal people — use it! Share your healing powers with the world, and spread your light everywhere you go.

4. The Philosopher

Able to penetrate deeply into the heart of matters, your mind is constantly abuzz with new ideas and projects. You may often feel lost, but the truth is you’re walking exactly the path laid out for you. There are no mistakes here — only life lessons. Trust yourself, and you’ll continue to move ahead with your own spiritual journey.

5. The Trickster

Aloof and unattainable, you’re an enigma wrapped in a mystery. You hide an awful lot of information from people, and are often seen as more attractive because of this. While you may not do this on purpose, it’s become a signature part of your life. You don’t need to be anybody but yourself, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

6. The Old Soul

You’ve been here, many times before. You’ve seen things come and go, and no longer seek the same things that other people do. In this incarnation, though, you’re unsure of your purpose — and may lack self-confidence because of it. It’s time to find your own way, your own light. Work diligently, and you just may find what you seek.

7. The Night Owl

Darkness is home to you. Whether it’s the wee hours of the morning or the womb of a cave, the shadows are your friend. A natural-born illusionist, you only reveal what you know other people want to see. Don’t change — you’re doing exactly what you need to.


Originally appeared on Ewao

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If You Do These 10 Things, You’re Definitely A FANTASTIC Lover

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Want to learn how to manifest your full sexual power, even if you are out of touch with it now? First, you must learn to completely inhabit your body and the moment. If not now, when? Holding back, fixating on performance, or letting your mind chatter and drift is the end of passion. It’s vital to get out of your head and into your bliss.

What is true sexual power? I define it as proudly claiming your erotic self and mindfully channeling sexual energy. You never use it to hurt, manipulate, smother, make conquests or get addicted to the ego trip of sensual pleasure at the expense of others. This is bad karma. Nor do you allow others to harm or disrespect you.

Sexual power is not just who you are in bed, though that’s an aspect of it. You also make electric linkages to your body, to spirit, to a lover, to the universe. It’s a turn-on when sexual power is blended with spiritual power.

Too many of us in our heady, frantic world lack the rich experience of having a primal connection with someone. Sexuality can offer us this, a satisfaction you can never get from your intellect alone.

As you open to both sex and spirit, whether you’re single or part of a couple, you’ll be a vessel for erotic flow, enjoying pleasure without insecurities or inhibitions.

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A key aspect of sexual power is emotional intimacy, an instinctive desire to bond to a lover, to feel comfort, to be known. This makes the difference between pure physical sex and lovemaking.

Emotional intimacy comes from affection, from sharing feelings, from being vulnerable. By caring you reinforce each other’s attractiveness and make each other feel special. As friends and lovers, you are fundamentally there for each other which creates trust. You see each other as real people, the good and the bad, not some idealized version. When conflict, anger, or hurt feelings arise, you’re committed to working through them.

What makes a good lover? There’s an electric chemistry between couples that is unique to them. Smell, voice, touch, and kissing style all figure in. Technical skills and good hygiene are also important. But beyond these, here are 10 qualities of a good lover.

1. You’re a willing learner.

2. You’re playful and passionate.

3. You make your partner feel sexy.

4. You’re confident, not afraid to be vulnerable.

5. You’re adventurous and willing to experiment.

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6. You communicate your needs and listen to your partner.

7. You make time and don’t rush.

8. You enjoy giving pleasure as much as you enjoy receiving it.

9. You’re supportive, not judgmental.

10. You’re fully present in the moment with good eye contact and can let go.

What stops us from being good lovers? Frequently it’s time constraints, self-centeredness, inhibitions, and lack of technique. Also, our minds won’t shut off which keeps us from being in the moment.

Further, many of us resist surrendering to how sexy we really are. Why? We haven’t learned to see ourselves as sexy. We’ve been brainwashed by the “skinny ideal.” Also, sex is frequently viewed more as a performance feat than a holy exchange.

Growing up, most of us haven’t been given the right kind of education about what true sexiness is. If only we’d been taught that sexuality is a healthy, natural part of us that we must embody in a mindful, loving way — not something “dirty” or something to be ashamed of.

Early on we learn that the words vagina and penis embarrass people. Except between lovers, they are rarely ever part of our vocabulary. We are a culture that embraces shame, only there is nothing to be ashamed of!

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Sexual responsiveness is a sensitive barometer. Intimacy requires self-awareness and a willingness to remove obstacles. Taking action can help you achieve a loving, erotic relationship.

On a daily basis, train yourself to be more mindful about getting rest and pacing yourself. It’s not sexy to rush around and be constantly stressed out. Especially when you’re busy, it’s important to remember to breathe, a quick way to reconnect with your body! Though family, work, and other demands can intrude on making time sexuality, being dedicated to self-care can help you prioritize it in your relationship.

To cure self-doubts, you need to be solution-oriented. For instance, if you wonder, “Is my technique right?” honestly talk with your partner how you can meet each other’s needs. If you’re bored with the same positions, playfully brainstorm together about exciting ways to experiment. Also, with respect, keep discussing the anger or hurt you may feel towards each other so that your resentments don’t numb passion.

For more complex issues such as fear of intimacy, reach out to a therapist or a friend for insight. While exploring your fears, be kind to yourself. Such sweetness allows you to mend wounds and reclaim your sexual power.


Source: Huffington Post

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Guys Don’t Give A Damn About These 10 Things That Women THINK They Care About

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Sometimes men get a bad rap for not noticing things, not paying attention to small details, and even just not listening in general. While I do often disagree with many of these generalizations, it is true that there are some things guys don’t care about. But they might not be the kinds of things that you would think. Here’s a quick rundown.

 

1. We don’t care that your hair or makeup isn’t perfect today.

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Trust me, we appreciate the effort you put into looking great, whether it is just for yourself or for a nice event or for your first date with us. But don’t be so hard on yourself. If we are spending time with you, we are doing it because we want to, regardless of how you look.

2. We don’t care about those few extra pounds that you want to lose.

We all have insecurities — men included. Unless we look like Marky Mark’s Calvin Klein underwear ad, we have plenty of things we want to change about our own bodies, too. We just don’t talk about it as much. Odds are, the small things you are uncomfortable with are never anything a good man would complain about when being intimate with you. We just want to enjoy you.

3. We don’t care if you make more money than us.

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Or less. Or the same. Or whatever. Men who are secure in themselves pay much more attention to who you are as a person and how you make us feel when we are around you, rather than what you choose to do for a profession. I would much rather a woman with a beautiful heart and a beautiful mind than the CEO of a major company who is cold and callous.

The happiness that comes along with loving what you do is more important than a paycheck that comes along with something you don’t.

4. We don’t care that you have a few drinks on a date.

As mature adults who know our limits when it comes to alcohol, we genuinely don’t mind if you loosen up a little bit or get a little giggly after too much wine. Feeling that you are comfortable around us will make us more comfortable around you.

Two things that should be obvious to this point, though:

  • Don’t overdo it.
  • A good man will never take advantage of you because of this. Just two adults enjoying each other’s company.

5. We don’t care when you sleep with us.

That’s right. Whether it’s the first date or the fifth date, one thing remains constant: We probably already know whether we want to see you again before we know if/when you are going to sleep with us. We won’t judge you if you want to do it on the first date and we won’t stop calling you if you want to wait until the fifth. If we want to see you again, we will.

6. We don’t care if you text us first.

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Many women don’t think they should text a man first because it shows desperation, but this is not true. If he is not texting you and he is interested, he is likely thinking about it constantly but just doesn’t want to come across too strong. He will more than welcome seeing your name pop up on his phone and it will take the pressure off of him moving forward.

7. We don’t care what you look like when you wake up.

I have heard of some women who either won’t let men stay over until a certain amount of time has passed in the dating process, or that will go to bed with makeup on because they don’t want him to see how they look when they wake up in the morning. The truth is, we don’t really care. I don’t mean this in an apathetic way, I mean it in an “If we are waking up next to you, we think you are beautiful no matter what” way.

8. We don’t care what you order for dinner.

Hopefully, the stigma is not still around that women should eat like rabbits, especially while on a date. If you want a steak, order a damn steak. Don’t change what you eat when you are around us because of some nonexistent reason. Indulge!

9. We don’t care if you swear around us.

I have mentioned in other articles about how it’s not “ladylike” to swear, and it’s not “gentlemanly” either. But let’s be honest, we are all mature adults here and can handle the language. Needless to say, when we are in public or around family it’s best to keep the reins pulled in a little bit, but no guy is going to complain about a few F-bombs dropped here and there. It’s natural and one of the top things guys don’t care about.

10. We don’t care if you are not perfect.

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Nobody is perfect. Nobody. The word itself is essentially meaningless anyway because, with 7 billion people in the world, no two will have the same image of perfection in their mind.

So, stop worrying that you don’t look like the airbrushed model in a Victoria’s Secret advertisement. Stop worrying that you think your hair is too short to be sexy. Stop worrying about those couple of extra pounds. Stop worrying about your awkward birthmark. Stop worrying that you don’t have a stupid thigh gap.

We don’t care because when you love someone for who they truly are, everything about them becomes beautiful.


Originally published at The Good Men Project

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12 Types of Kisses And What They Say About How Someone Feels About You

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Kissing. There’s not just one kind and each kind is special in its own way. Each kind of kiss is an expression of beauty, love, friendship, compassion, and sensuality. You might consider kissing like the gateway to love, sex, or unification.

Kisses open possibilities and, in some cases, close them. What does his kiss mean? Here are the 12 types of kisses and what they say about his feelings.

1. The Peck

A quick peck can mean so many things. It can be a hello or goodbye to a friend, partner or family member. It can also be the sign of an angry or distant partner. The lack of a kiss. You’ll know based on the person who gives you the peck whether it’s a sweet hello or a cold “I’m upset with you.”

2. The Biting Kiss

The lover or partner who bites slightly at the edge of your lip is playfully telling you he or she wants more. More sexual interaction. More attention. More fun. It’s a kinky kiss and it’s one that demands your attention and ups the game. When someone kisses you this way, it means he or she is very into you and wants to play. Now.

3. The Side Kiss

Someone who kisses you on the sides of your lip is either short on time or rushing, or (most likely this case) teasing you in a sensual way. This person wants a gradual sexual buildup. This person takes his or her time trying to approach his or her partner.

4. The Neck Kiss

Hot damn! For some of us, this is our spot. If it’s not “your spot,” it’s still an intense kiss. When someone kisses you on the neck, he or she wants you sexually. This is not a friendly kiss. This is a not a “breakup kiss” or “an angry kiss.” This is an “I want you in bed kiss” and I’m going to take you. A person who does this is making a bet that you feel the same.

5. The Angry Kiss

That furious kiss that happens when two people who are utterly pissed at each other and arguing grab each other and kiss sloppily, intensely and a little bit aggressively. There’s only one kiss like this and it only happens during or after a fight. Never before and never when things are nice and peaceful between a couple.

6. The Breakup Kiss

This is by far the worst kiss of all. It’s sad. It’s slow and intense. And usually salty due to tears. This isn’t the somber kiss — the kiss in which someone has clearly started to detach from you. This kiss is the one in which you two are saying your goodbyes face to face, and it’s painful. It’s the kiss that you don’t want to end because once it ends it’s all over. Your story as a couple ends.

7. The Somber Kiss

The tongue action has ended. The lips are a bit soft and are never intense. The mouth never lingers either. This is the kiss that says that your partner’s feelings are dying for you or that, perhaps, there are some issues between you two and his or her anger or pain is creating a wall between the two of you.

8. The Traveling Kiss

The kiss that starts on your mouth and escapes to your neck, chest, cheeks is the one of complete desire and need. When a partner starts to explore any area of your body with his or her mouth, whether it’s just the face or the totality of you, your partner is deliberately taking his or her time with you.

This partner wants to make love to you. This partner wants to taste every section and inch of you, even if he or she timidly “travels” only in one area of your body. Let them take their time because the fun is just about to begin.

9. The Forehead Kiss

Adoring, tender and sweet, only someone who truly thinks you are precious and endearing gives the forehead kiss. A kiss on the forehead is maternal or paternal but does not mean your partner has no sexual feelings for you. Of all the types of kisses, this one is the most special. Anyone can kiss anyone on the cheeks, but a man or woman that kisses your forehead or even the top of your nose is a person that adores you, completely.

10. The Breastbone Kiss

What does his kiss mean? A kiss that lands anywhere near your chest, male or female, better make you want to get undressed or you clearly are in a bad situation. This is an intense, passionate and sexy kiss. Even male nipples have nerve endings, and once anyone starts going south of the chin and neck, well… let the games begin!

11. The Chin Kiss

Right on the chin? Someone who gives this kiss feels tender about you but also truly wants to land one on your neck or breastbone and is either testing you or trying to fulfill his or her needs without getting too cheeky at the time.

12. The Breathless Kiss

You know what I am talking about. This is the kiss that does not end and you don’t want it to. Your faces change angles about fifty million times. You don’t stop to gasp for breath. Your hands dig into each other, gripping onto something, somewhere on each other.

It’s like you have found yourself in this kiss and are willing, in this “finding,” to get lost in the other person completely. Time stands still. Not literally, but to the two of you, it does. Your tongues find ways to tie and untie and it’s a hunger. The two of you are literally hungry for each other and the need is insatiable.

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7 very effective yoga poses for beautiful breasts

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Healthy living and exercise are vital to building a strong body. For those that are interested in building beautiful breasts, these yoga poses are effective at improving your breast, lung capacity, and build strong muscles for a better you!

 

Triangle Pose

The Triangle Pose is also known as Trikonasana, and it focuses on strengthening your thorax and spine, as well as improving your blood flow. To do this pose-

Place your feet apart. The left foot will be at a 90-degree angle and the right one 15 degrees. Take your left hand and touch your left ankle. From there, stretch your right arm towards the sky and keep a straight line. Make sure to keep your knees and spine straight too. look towards your right fingers and then repeat towards the other side.

Warrior Pose

The warrior pose, also known as the Virabhadrasana, is a pretty standard one in the world of yoga, but that doesn’t mean that it’s not effective. This also works on your thorax!

To do this pose start by putting your feet wide apart parallel to one another. Turn your left foot (the front foot) and turn it 90 degrees, and bend your front knee out. Raise your arms to parallel the legs, and place them in line with your shoulders. Turn your head forward and look above your wrist.

Cobra Pose

Bhujangasana or the Cobra Pose is a fantastic pose for lungs, abs, and your posture! The photo above represents a slightly different variation of this pose.

This pose requires you to sit on your stomach and inhale. From there, slowly raise your upper half of your body while keeping your lower half on the floor the entire time. Most of your weight will rest on your arms and legs. Slowly breathe out and go back down to the floor.

Bow Pose

Dhanurasana is known as the bow pose, and it’s the perfect relief for backaches and great for your spine! Start on your stomach, breathe out, and bend your knees. Then try to reach for your ankles. Pull your legs upwards as much as possible, stay in this position for roughly thirty minutes, and then let go of your ankles and go back down.

Supported Headstand

Salamba Sirsasana, also known as the supported headstand, is one for the experienced yogi, but definitely worth it for those that can do it. The pose is great for ligaments and muscles of the spine and thorax. It also improves breathing and blood flow, so this one is truly fantastic!

Start on your knees and place your forearms on the floor. Clasp your hands together behind the back of your head to form a support for your head and neck. Bend your knees and then slowly raise your feet up. Stay in this position anywhere from 30-seconds to 2 minutes!

Wheel Pose

The Wheel Pose is often great for headaches, but beyond that, there’s a whole range of magic the Chakrasana pose can bring- the thorax, spine, and neck are strengthened and it also lifts fatigue! This pose starts on your back, and place your feet shoulder width apart. Place your hands behind your head with your palms down so your fingers point towards the back, and then lift up. Stay in this pose for roughly 30 seconds!

Camel Pose

The Ustrasana pose, also known more commonly as the Camel Pose, is a great aid against backaches. It’s also great with lung volume and the thorax! To do this, stand on your knees. Make sure to place your feet together, and then slowly begin to bring your head backward while putting your hands on your feet. Arch your back and stretch your ribs. Your head should feel heavy and direct towards the ground! Stay in this for thirty seconds or so.

With these yoga moves, you’re sure to be one step closer to the body of your dreams. Healthy for both inside and outside of your body, there’s no excuse to not do these poses throughout the day!


Source: Shareably

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The Bitchiest Zodiac Signs, Ranked Most To Least

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Some people can be real bitches. And not just a normal, run-of-the-mill bitch, but a raging, over-the-top assh*le. Like the kind of bitch who makes you stop in your tracks and seriously considers kidnapping them, strapping them to a raft, and pushing them out to sea because they’re THAT awful.

You know the people I’m talking about. Your horoscope can tell you all about who they are, too.

While not all of the 12 zodiac signs are known for being bitchy, those that are, really have nasty down to a science. With Cancer, Virgo, Aquarius, and Sagittarius not even making the cut because their sweet souls aren’t made for raging bitch behavior (just little blips of bitch here and there), here are the bitchiest zodiac signs, from most bitchy to least bitchy.

1. SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

It should come as no surprise that Scorpio is one of the bitchiest zodiac signs. Scorpio can’t be trusted, are completely ruthless, and once you’re on their bad side, you’re likely to stay there forever. In other words, you never, EVER want to piss off a Scorpio. Instead, just avoid them all together; it’s safer that way.

2. GEMINI (Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Although fun at first, Gemini can turn on a dime and suddenly you find yourself looking at their evil twin. They’ll say one thing to your face, then say something completely different behind your back. While other signs might be able to recognize when they’re being two-faced, Gemini, in being a twin, just can’t. Pure. Evil.

3. CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

Between being a control freak and cold as ice, it’s hard to know where you stand with a Capricorn. Because of this, it’s best to stand far away from there. If they’re in a mood, you’re doomed. If they’re not in a mood, you should just expect them to be in a mood at any second.

4. ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

Who doesn’t hate the bitch who thinks she’s always right? Demanding and constantly needing to hear the sound of her own voice, Aries is a nightmare person. They love to argue and put people in their place, usually by telling untruths to prove their point. Like I said, Aries is under the delusion that they’re never wrong. *eye roll*

5. LIBRA (September 23 to October 22)

Superficial, shallow, and obsessed with appearance, Libra is the zodiac sign who will ban you from her party if you’re not wearing something of which she approves. Don’t kid yourself: all that harmony and balance comes with a bitch from hell.

6. TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

Stubborn and bitchy does not a pleasant person make. While Taurus is too ambitious to devote too much time to being bitchy, it’s still there. It’s just hiding underneath their need to succeed, so watch your back. If you’re in their way, they’ll run you over.

7. LEO (July 23 – August 22)

 

The bitchiness you find in Leo is one that’s more self-involved and egotistical. While they’re not likely to be bitchy to someone else, per se, the fact that they’re their own biggest fan will earn them the label “bitch” anyway.

8. PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

If you can stand passive-aggressive bitchiness, and most of us can, then Pisces’ occasional bad attitude will just roll off your back — after you roll your eyes at them, of course, because they’re still one hell of a bitch.


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Zodiac Signs Ranked From Angels To Devils

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1. Libra

You are the purest and most beautiful of angels. God made sure you were born with original sin because he knew you weren’t going to commit any other sins. You’re so pure, sometimes God asks you for advice. Even God says, “OK, I get it—you’re good—but maybe take it down a notch, because you make everyone else feel guilty.” You have to wear heavy boots just to keep from floating up into heaven.

2. Taurus

You have a forgiving heart and never hold grudges. Everyone calls you a sweetheart. You help little old ladies walk across the street, rescue kittens from trees, and catch babies as they fall out of burning buildings. Your only flaw is that sometimes you’re too nice for your own good—and in a world filled with devils, that can be dangerous.

3. Pisces

You have your own code of ethics, and you stick by them to the letter. You are kind, caring, forgiving, and empathetic. Your only flaw is a tendency to get mildly angry when people don’t return your kindness and generosity. But you quickly get over it because you realize life is too short to let the haters upset you.

4. Sagittarius

Loving others comes as easy to you as breathing. You walk through this life with a smile on your face and a song in your heart. You enjoy being around people and especially making them laugh. For you, truth is the highest good, and you only slip up when people lie—then a little bit of the Devil comes out of you. But you never bad moods sour your disposition—you feel the white-hot heat of anger for a moment and then let it go.

5. Aquarius

As the water-bearer, your biggest virtue is a seemingly bottomless willingness to do favors for others. You love the joy of bringing joy to others. You are honest and loving and kind. Your only sin is a very strong sex drive that sometimes leads to you making unwise decisions.

6. Gemini

Of course you’d be ranked in the middle. You’re the classic case of someone who always has an angel on one shoulder and a demon on the other, vying for your attention. Whether you choose to act like an angel or a devil largely depends on your mood and what you ate for breakfast. You are like night and day, good and evil, summer and winter all wrapped together in the same frustrating bundle of contradictions.

7. Leo

Lions are noble and strong and beautiful and majestic—until you get on their bad side. That’s when you flash your fearsome teeth and let out a roar. You like doing good deeds until someone crosses you—then you make sure they regret it for the rest of their life.

8. Cancer

You sincerely wish to be a good person—it’s just that life offers so many temptations, and it’s hard for you to resist. A typical day for you involves taking your niece to school, yoga class, a visit to your aunt in the hospital, and then a four-hour hookup with that hot guy from Tinder. It is your sincerest hope that God is very forgiving—because you’re gonna need it.

9. Virgo

You are warm, funny, generous, and very likeable. You are also a slave to your many desires. And you have a mean streak ten miles long. If someone is foolish enough to get on your bad side, you will seek vengeance and not rest until you’ve humiliated your antagonist. But otherwise, like I said, you’re very likeable.

10. Aries

You have so many vices, a member of the local Vice Squad has been assigned to handle your case. Whether it’s drinking, sex, gambling, lying, cheating, double-crossing, swindling, or backstabbing, you have it covered like a pro. Your redeeming value is your great sense of humor—you like to make people laugh before fucking them over.

11. Capricorn

There’s a reason that the Devil is often rendered as a goat’s head in paintings—it’s because the Devil is you. You willingly posed for that portrait. You don’t want to do good, because that’s for suckers. You’ll do evil until you’re caught, and then you’ll pretend to apologize. Sometimes you even find yourself scapegoated—but not often, because usually you’re guilty AF.

12. Scorpio

Even Satan screens your phone calls because he doesn’t want you to yell at him. There are seven levels of hell, but you have a plush condo tucked beneath all of them. You are the living embodiment of evil—but what a body it is! Your sex appeal is so strong, it could bring the Pope to his knees, begging for a taste.


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The Zodiac Signs Ranked In Order Of How Good They Are As Husbands

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1. Cancer.

Cancer men make the absolute best husbands, hands down. They never shy away from commitment, they are loyal, honest, and want to build a life with you. When they are in love with someone, they feel it so strongly, and because sensitivity is in their nature, you really don’t ever have to worry about the flame dying out for long in your life together. They are – ahem – crabby at times, yes, but honestly take comfort in the fact that the majority of your arguments will be about stupid things like who last took the trash out or that one friend you never want to hang out with but always seem to have to, rather than actual, legitimate issues like whether or not you want to be together, or whether or not they were faithful last weekend. Keep in mind that the latter are actual issues that people, unfortunately, do deal with. A Cancer man is a life you want to build a home and family with. They will be silly and fun and in love with you all. 10/10 put a ring on it.

 

 

2. Libra.

Libras are the ultimate relationship partners. They are obsessed with love, and though they are indecisive by nature, once they do choose what they want – especially in romance – they are all in. They are committed from day one, and their loyalty and love does not falter. They bring balance and beauty to the relationship, they inspire their partner to be better and dream bigger than they ever thought they could. Libras make amazing parents, and they are reasonably sound of mind when difficult times come up. They will be your rock, they will be your biggest supporter, and more than anything, they will love the crap out of your for as long as they can.

3. Scorpio.

I know, I know, you didn’t see this one coming. Your idea of Scorpios is probably that they are fiercely jealous and deeply emotional and have a dark sense of humor about it all. But that’s really what makes them such prime life partners. First of all, the opposite end of their capacity to envy is their loyalty. Once they have committed to you, they will commit to you forever. They will be protective, focused, give-you-the-shirt-off-their-back selfless and your biggest fan always. Together, you will be best friends and life partners. They will defend you by any means to anyone who dares speak an ill word of you, and you can trust that a Scorpio partner will be as faithful as they come. Once you are their desire, you will be their only desire. They are not for everyone, but the people who they are right for, they are right for always.

4. Gemini.

Geminis are actually amazing in love. Despite their infamously “all over the place” nature, they make for astoundingly solid partners. First of all, Geminis need other people more than a lot of the other signs. Geminis thrive when they marry someone they truly respect, to look out for a Gem who admires and is proud of you. Geminis are grounded by people who compensate for their weaknesses with complementary strengths. They jive best with people who are either inspirational to them, or who think more clearly and are less emotional than them. A Gemini partner is like the absolute best friend you could ever wish for, and the most passionate, creative, loyal love you will ever have in your life.

5. Pisces.

Pisces make great husbands, especially if you are into the “creative, emotional” type. You usually don’t have to worry about them being too aggressive or unreasonable, and once they are in love with you, they will be obsessed with you. Of course, as with anything else, it’s not right for everyone, but overall Pisces make super warm and loving husbands, the kind that take care of the kids and actually listen when you can’t decide what color off off-white linens to buy. Pisces will largely stay in their own little odd and creative worlds, and that’s fine, because not only are they deeper and more intuitive than the other signs (a huuuuuge plus in a relationship) but they have a life of their own, too. They aren’t going to suffocate you.

6. Capricorn.

Capricorns are the realest when it comes to being lifelong partners. They have all of the qualities of a strong and cooperative other half, and when they commit to someone, they do everything they can to make sure that they are putting as much effort as possible into the relationship. Capricorns are the epitome of “sturdy husbands,” one that you can lean on mentally and emotionally. They will forever be your voice of reason, your sounding board, your greatest encourager. Though they are sometimes known for being stubborn (which is occasionally true) they actually err toward being pretty open-minded, and that’s amazing when it comes to cohabiting and communicating well. They will listen and hear you out, even if they disagree.

7. Virgo.

Virgos are pretty good partners, but won’t always show every layer of themselves to you, at least not right away. They are loving and funny and are overall pretty chill about things, but Virgos also tend to have a bit of apprehension toward being “tied down.” Beyond this, at times, their paranoia and/or obsessive thinking can get the best of them, and they don’t always know how to separate what’s going on in their minds from what’s going down in their relationships. Virgos are about a 50/50 success rate in terms of life partnership. If they’re in, they’re in. If they are even just 90% committed, it will be a big problem down the line. Virgos aren’t a guarantee, but they’ll always be a wild adventure in the meantime.

8. Aries.

A relationship with an Aries will be great when the going is great, and then rough when the going is rough. They are opinionated, driven and like to take the lead with things. They like to highlight their individuality, want their voices to be heard, and like to be right about things. These traits, when in the wrong relationship, can really add up to some turmoil. It’s not to say that you’re doomed, but it is to say that Aries aren’t by nature the most agreeable people alive.

9. Leo.

Leo husbands are really a toss up. They will love harder than probably any other sign there is, and won’t hesitate to show their soft and sensitive side when needed. However, if and when challenged or put into a difficult situation, they struggle to maintain their cool and not become aggressive or overbearing. Life with a Leo is either great or it’s very difficult, whether you’re someone who can easily stand up for themselves or not. You’ll either spend 1/3 of your lives in a fight, or will often feel like your wants and needs are being imposed upon.

10. Taurus.

Tauruses are the single most stubborn sign of the entire group. It is their way or the damn highway. Aside from this, their standards are so unreasonably high that it will often feel like there’s just no way you can win. Sure, they are super loving and loyal to the people who they are close to, but building an intimate relationship with one really requires you to have a tough skin, and not be afraid to call them out when they need it.

11. Aquarius.

Aquariuses are the most ambitious and determined sign of the group, and that’s what makes them difficult life partners. They spend most of their time seeming sort of distracted and consumed by their work. Though they do often find partners that complement their lifestyles, it’s highly likely that their relationships will be impacted by their priorities at some time or another.

12. Sagittarius.

Aside from being the sign that is most often associated with being unfaithful (though of course, not every Sag is) Sagittariuses are just the free spirits of the zodiac. They want to adventure and explore and find who they are. They are meant to be in the woods, traveling through Europe, reading books on obscure topics and taking whichever lovers appeal to them at any given point in time. They aren’t the worst husbands because they’re bad people, they’re the worst because they are the least likely to be happy whilst committed.


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The 4 Kinkiest Zodiac Signs Who Are Freeeeeaks In The Sheets

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On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your own kinkiness? Would you be shy to even admit that you’re kinky, or would you wave your arms and flail around until everyone knew you were the #1 Kinkmaster of all time?

The truth about being kinky doesn’t always come with pride; in fact, sometimes the kinky things that get us off are super private secrets — sometimes those thoughts are even embarrassing to us, no matter what our horoscope says otherwise. When we either think about those things or act out on them, that’s when we go from fantasist to full on kinkster.

There’s a big difference between wanting to wear leather and wanting to wear leather while screaming “Mommy loves me!” at the height of orgasm. See what I mean? It’s all degrees of kink.

Being kinky doesn’t automatically make one crazy because we’re all a little crazy to start with. Kink simply provides an alternate avenue for us to explore our personal sexual paths, and for those of an adventurous nature, kink may be the way we find out who we are ultimately, and what we’re made of.

While the missionary position and a round of “Yeah, I’m satisfied” might be rightfully enough for some, knowing that this is all happening in a large pool filled with green jello and rubber koi fish while both parties are wearing Japanese school girl outfits may be just what it takes to rank on the kink-o-meter.

Fun fact: During sex, most married couples like to imagine themselves borne along on a river of seething black eels, while dressed head to toe in slime-covered lemon-scented purple vinyl. At the moment of climax, one shouts out, “I mean no harm to you or your planet,” while the other likes to sing Russian pop songs in click-tongue. But that’s “The Pantheon of Kink” and rarely, if ever, do married couples make it this far.

So, who amongst the zodiac signs is the actual kinkiest of them all? Here are the kinkiest zodiac signs and what you can expect when you jump into bed with them.

 

1. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

 

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